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When I was first “diagnosed” as being ambi (not to be confused with Bambi) the definition was “introverted, but being able to cause oneself to become extroverted”.

Suits me fine.
Your description is spot on.
Not the Loudmouth Larry type ‘A’ at the party but not Casper Milquetoast either.
Best of both worlds IMO.